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Tim Ferriss · 2023-05-17

Seth Godin on Choosing Your Attitude and Overcoming Rejection

Seth Godin tells Tim Ferriss that attitude is the one thing we choose, and meaning beats hustle.

Seth Godin on Choosing Your Attitude and Overcoming Rejection
The guest

Seth Godin: Author of 21 international bestsellers (Tribes, Purple Cow, This Is Marketing), popular marketing blogger, founder of altMBA, Squidoo, and Yoyodyne, and creator of The Carbon Almanac. His latest book is The Song of Significance: A New Manifesto for Teams.

What this episode covers

Tim Ferriss and Seth Godin range across aging, attitude, and how to find meaning in a doom-laden culture. Godin argues that attitude is the only thing each person truly gets to choose, and that the modern crisis is a 'meaning shortage,' not a profit shortage. He draws on building The Carbon Almanac with 1,900 volunteers, the bees' 'song of increase,' a near-drowning, and Viktor Frankl to make the case for significance over hustle. The pair dig into rejection (Godin's 800 straight rejection letters), false proxies in hiring, employee retention, asynchronous work, meetings, and how to give and receive feedback on creative work.

Recommended on this episode

BookRecommendedISBN verified

Ministry for the Future

Kim Stanley Robinson

“the magnificent Ministry for the Future”
“I read the magnificent Ministry for the Future by Kim Stanley Robinson, and it completely upended the way I saw the world.”— Seth Godin
BookRecommendedISBN verified

Let's Get Real or Let's Not Play

Mahan Khalsa

“it's overlooked and so beautiful”
“Mahan Khalsa has written a book called Let's Get Real or Let's Not Play about B2B selling. So let me just elaborate on this book, because it's overlooked and so beautiful.”— Seth Godin
BookRecommendedISBN verified

Secrets of Closing the Sale

Zig Ziglar

“The stories in the book Secrets of Closing the Sale are gold”
“The stories in the book Secrets of Closing the Sale are gold. I could tell word for word the story of the overalls.”— Seth Godin
BookRecommendedISBN verified

See You at the Top

Zig Ziglar

“his original classic See You at the Top, also filled with stories”
“And his original classic See You at the Top, also filled with stories.”— Seth Godin

The guest's own work

BookBy the guestISBN verified

Tribes

Seth Godin

“Seth's books include Tribes, Purple Cow, Lynchpin, The Dip, and This Is Marketing.”— Tim Ferriss
BookBy the guestISBN verified

Purple Cow

Seth Godin

“Seth's books include Tribes, Purple Cow, Lynchpin, The Dip, and This Is Marketing.”— Tim Ferriss
BookBy the guestISBN verified

Linchpin

Seth Godin

“Seth's books include Tribes, Purple Cow, Lynchpin, The Dip, and This Is Marketing.”— Tim Ferriss
BookBy the guestISBN verified

The Dip

Seth Godin

“Seth's books include Tribes, Purple Cow, Lynchpin, The Dip, and This Is Marketing.”— Tim Ferriss
BookBy the guestISBN verified

This Is Marketing

Seth Godin

“Seth's books include Tribes, Purple Cow, Lynchpin, The Dip, and This Is Marketing.”— Tim Ferriss
BookBy the guestISBN verified

The Song of Significance: A New Manifesto for Teams

Seth Godin

“His new book is The Song of Significance: A New Manifesto for Teams.”— Tim Ferriss
BookBy the guestISBN verified

Permission Marketing

Seth Godin

“I wrote Permission Marketing, which invented the business of email marketing, and I wrote a book called Purple Cow.”— Seth Godin
BookBy the guest

The Carbon Almanac

Seth Godin

“When I first started organizing The Carbon Almanac, there was a full two months when the cataclysm that we have created was confronting me really directly.”— Seth Godin
BookBy the guestISBN verified

The 4-Hour Workweek

Tim Ferriss

“Seth Godin: The 4-Hour Workweek? Tim Ferriss: Yeah, The 4-Hour Workweek was 2007. So let's call it 15 years ago.”— Seth Godin

Also referenced (named, not recommended)

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Man's Search for Meaning

Viktor Frankl

“There are a few books that have been brought up on this podcast more than that one, and Viktor Frankl's story, survival of four concentration camps.”— Seth Godin
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The Last Policeman

Ben H. Winters

“there's a great book that I loved called The Last Policeman. I'm not sure I'd say it's a great book. It's a great concept.”— Seth Godin
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Song of Increase

Jacqueline Freeman

“he told me the story of Jacqueline Freeman's Song of Increase. And The Song of Increase is just such a great Tim Ferriss story.”— Seth Godin
ProductReferenced

Strava

Strava, Inc.

“there's the whole measured self-movement about how can you get better on your bike with Strava, but that's happening to you at work.”— Seth Godin
ProductReferenced

WordPress

Automattic

“This is exactly the way Matt builds WordPress. That Automattic is a reading and writing culture where if you're good at reading and writing, you get to do more stuff.”— Seth Godin
ProductReferenced

Zoom

Zoom Video Communications

“So Zoom is a miracle because Zoom eliminates geography when it comes to being able to connect with people.”— Seth Godin
ProductReferenced

ChatGPT

OpenAI

“Have you seen what his team has built with ChatGPT for blogs? It is the single best use I have seen of ChatGPT.”— Seth Godin
ProductReferenced

Discourse

Civilized Discourse Construction Kit

“So what an opportunity. I downloaded Discourse, set it up, invited some people to join me, and within a month we had 300 volunteers.”— Seth Godin
MediaReferenced

Distributed

Automattic

“he also has been part of a podcast. And this is, I believe, Automattic produced, called Distributed.”— Tim Ferriss

Big reveals from this episode

  • Godin's core philosophy from mentor Zig Ziglar: the world will be whatever it is, and the only thing each of us truly gets to pick is our attitude toward what happens.
  • Frankl belongs to a triad of Austrian thinkers: Freud focused on sensuality/sex, Adler on status/dominance, and Frankl on meaning, the discovery that finding meaning makes everything in a person's life better.
  • Godin's central thesis: 'We don't have a profit shortage, we have a meaning shortage,' and culture should enable business rather than the reverse.
  • On climate, individual recycling is a myth; organizing five to ten people to, say, ban gas leaf blowers has 50x the impact of switching to an electric car, and fills you with meaning.
  • False proxies (famous college, no resume typos, good interviewing) drive caste systems and prejudice; Godin's fix is to never hire someone he hasn't done a paid trial project with first.
  • After his first book with Chip Conley, Godin got 800 rejection letters in a row, and the breakthrough was realizing they were rejecting the work, not him.
  • Page 19 thinking: when no one yet knows how to do a needed task, someone drafts a rough version and says 'please make this better,' creating relentless criticism of the work without blaming the worker.
  • Godin distinguishes criticism, feedback, and advice, and ranks editing types: developmental editing is 'priceless' while proofreading is now trivial and free; don't show writing to amateurs who give 'logo advice.'

Worth remembering

  • Godin was on the internet in 1976, before the World Wide Web existed, and later founded Yoyodyne, one of the first internet companies.
  • The Carbon Almanac was a 97,000-word book built, edited, footnoted and illustrated in 150 days by 300+ volunteers working in shifts around the world, with no errors.
  • The concept of the 'carbon footprint' was invented by ad agency Ogilvy & Mather for client British Petroleum to make privileged people feel guilty about their behavior.
  • Amazon's employee turnover has hit 30% in a 90-day period, and turnover costs the company about a third of its total profit; over half of all U.S. warehouse-industry injuries last year happened at an Amazon warehouse.
  • In a feral beehive's 'song of increase,' about 12,000 bees leave in a 10-minute window to swarm, must keep a 98-degree body temperature, and have only three days to find a new home, with most bees only three weeks old.
  • Quakers invented solitary confinement (the 'penitentiary' as a place to be penitent), and combined with England's panopticon, Godin frames this as the root of workplace surveillance capitalism.
  • London ad agency St. Luke's capped itself at 30 employees and refused new clients unless an old one left, treating turnover as healthy rather than something to prevent.
  • Shopify's Tobi Lutke ran a script that deleted every regularly scheduled group meeting company-wide, then emailed staff: 'I just bought you back your day.'
  • Godin's first job in 1983 was as a 24-year-old brand manager at a Boston software company, working with Arthur C. Clarke, Michael Crichton, and Ray Bradbury.
  • Danny Meyer broke Godin's nose and offered to straighten it; it remains crooked, which Godin uses to illustrate that with page 19 thinking 'my nose is not involved.'