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Andrew Huberman · 2023-10-02

How to Succeed at Hard Conversations | Chris Voss

How to Succeed at Hard Conversations | Chris Voss

The guest's own work

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Never Split the Difference

Chris Voss

“First of all, I want to say that your book Never Split the Difference. One of my favorite books.”— Andrew Huberman
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Tactical Empathy operations manual

Chris Voss

“We've been toying with this companion operations manual for tactical empathy, which getting it right is important. So it's sort of a companion book to Never Split the Difference.”— Chris Voss
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The Black Swan method for real estate agents

Chris Voss

“We just finished a book for residential real estate agents. A friend of mine, Steve Scholl... it's mostly the Black Swan method for real estate agents”— Chris Voss
MediaBy the guest

Tactical Empathy

Nick Nanton

“There's a documentary film that's been done on my company called Tactical Empathy. Nick Nanton won 22, 23 Emmys. The filmmaker, DNA films.”— Chris Voss
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Fireside

Falon Fatemi and Mark Cuban

“Brand new social media platform. It's essentially an interactive podcast. It's a subscription service founded by Falon Fatemi and Mark Cuban.”— Chris Voss

Also referenced (named, not recommended)

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Thinking, Fast and Slow

Daniel Kahneman

“Daniel Kahneman, behavioral economics, Thinking Fast and Slow. Slow thinking is in-depth thinking.”— Chris Voss
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Man Without a Gun

Gianni Picco

“Gianni Domenico got all the Western hostages out of Beirut in the mid '80s, wrote a book called Man Without a Gun, negotiated in person”— Chris Voss
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Beyond Winning

Robert Mnookin

“Bob Mnookin's book Beyond Winnings, chapter, the tension between empathy and assertiveness. He says empathy is not agreeing, disagreeing, or even liking the other side”— Chris Voss
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The Upward Spiral

Alex Korb (inferred)

“I think the first time I read about it was in a book called The Upward Spiral, and that book is a good 10 years old, I think”— Chris Voss
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The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk (inferred)

“it's a toss up between your book Never Split the Difference, and The Body Keeps the Score for the award for best titles of any book.”— Andrew Huberman
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Real Housewives

Bravo (inferred)

“this ain't going to be Real Housewives to make this show properly. There ain't going to be any screaming.”— Chris Voss
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Bar Rescue

Paramount (inferred)

“It's not going to be Bar Rescue, where we're yelling at people. We're not going to be Hell's Kitchen, where we're yelling at people.”— Chris Voss
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Hell's Kitchen

Gordon Ramsay (inferred)

“We're not going to be Hell's Kitchen, where we're yelling at people. It's never going to be exciting, but it is going to be astonishing.”— Chris Voss
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The Silence of the Lambs

Jonathan Demme (inferred)

“I saw Silence of the Lambs, at the beginning, she's running around with other agents. Shooting targets and running and lifting”— Andrew Huberman