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Tim Ferriss · 2024-09-20

Q&A with Tim — Parenting Considerations, Intuition, New Hobbies, Dating, and More

Tim Ferriss answers fan questions on reinvention, parenting, dating, intuition, archery, and why doing things in real life beats AI overload.

Q&A with Tim — Parenting Considerations, Intuition, New Hobbies, Dating, and More
The guest

Tim Ferriss: Author, entrepreneur, angel investor, and host of The Tim Ferriss Show, here doing a solo Q&A marking the podcast's 10th anniversary.

What this episode covers

In this solo, improvised Q&A Tim Ferriss fields pre-submitted and live questions from his audience following the podcast's 10th-anniversary celebrations. He ranges across personal and practical territory: how he thinks about optimization, risk, and barbell strategies in finance and life; his current uncertainty about what to do professionally beyond a new collaborative book he's drafting; and his evolving openness to parenting, including single parenthood. He shares candid takes on modern dating as a public figure, the qualities he seeks in a partner, intuition versus rationality, and his skepticism toward longevity hype in favor of 'experiential lifespan.' Throughout he stresses connecting with like-minded people in real life as a buffer against an oncoming flood of AI-driven information overload.

Recommended on this episode

BookRecommended

The Tail End

Tim Urban

“I would recommend everyone read something called The Tail End by Tim Urban that is a good investment of time”
“I would recommend everyone read something called The Tail End by Tim Urban that is a good investment of time it's very short”— Tim Ferriss
BookRecommended

On Anger (De Ira)

Seneca

“his writing is amazing the guy's writing is amazing”
“once again listening to an audio book on anger or Ona Ira I mean his writing is amazing the guy's writing is amazing”— Tim Ferriss
MediaRecommended

Dune: Part Two

Denis Villeneuve

“big fan of the second Dune movie”
“big fan of the second Dune movie frankly”— Tim Ferriss
MediaRecommended

Ex Machina

Alex Garland

“ex bakina I remember really enjoying”
“ex bakina I remember really enjoying there are a lot of great science fiction movies”— Tim Ferriss
MediaRecommended

Her

Spike Jonze

“I think her was fantastic”
“I think her was fantastic and you know at the time it seemed insane and it's basically already there”— Tim Ferriss
ProductRecommended

PSO-RITE

PSO-RITE

“those have been amazing for just like rolling out my glutes and per foris and my legs”
“I bought an extra soite PSO RIT and a mini Rumble roller that I can travel with and those have been amazing for just like rolling out my glutes”— Tim Ferriss
ProductRecommended

Rumble Roller (mini)

RumbleRoller

“those have been amazing for just like rolling out my glutes and per foris and my legs”
“I bought an extra soite PSO RIT and a mini Rumble roller that I can travel with and those have been amazing for just like rolling out my glutes”— Tim Ferriss
ProductRecommended

Audio-Technica ATM50x headset

Audio-Technica

“this is atm50x it's an Audio Technica headset”
“this right here this is atm50x it's an Audio Technica headset it's has a USBC attachment plug that into your iPhone”— Tim Ferriss
ProductRecommended

Hinge

Match Group

“hinge has been one of the better options so far”
“I think hinge has been one of the better options so far I think that in terms of just quality people have to pass some hurdles”— Tim Ferriss

The guest's own work

BookBy the guestISBN verified

The 4-Hour Body

Tim Ferriss

“that's slow carb diet it's a straightforward from four our body and then super slow as applied”— Tim Ferriss
ProductBy the guest

The Five Minute Journal

Intelligent Change

“that's not true with five minute journal and things like that kind of these statements like I am or whatever”— Tim Ferriss

Also referenced (named, not recommended)

ProductReferenced

The League

The League

“the league is pretty interesting also because you can search by interest which is so critical I don't know why you can't do it on any other app”— Tim Ferriss
ProductReferenced

Nayoya acupressure mat

Nayoya

“that's for people who are curious the naoya ACU pressure mat I think or other there are a lot of imitations that I'm sure just as good”— Tim Ferriss
ProductReferenced

Metamucil

Procter & Gamble

“you could just use like metamol citrus cell beforehand I mean it does slow gastric emptying and it does also reduce glycemic index”— Tim Ferriss

Big reveals from this episode

  • If he had to pick one topic for the podcast going forward, it would be reinvention, people who step back and reexamine their assumptions rather than staying in tried-and-true grooves.
  • He defines risk specifically as the potential of an irreversible negative outcome; the podcast itself wasn't risky to him because he could always stop, it was low-cost to start, and he enjoyed the process.
  • He admits he currently doesn't know what he wants to do professionally, some days it's genuinely stressful, and the new book is the only thing clearly in his sights.
  • He's writing the new book collaboratively rather than as a 'lone wolf,' which he says is psychologically healthier, and notes the Cockpunch NFT project was a precursor to this collaborative process.
  • He has roughly a thousand pages of notes on connecting with animals/nature and psychedelic exploration, and feels that may be the most important book he writes, but will wait until he no longer cares what people think because it'll sound extremely strange.
  • On parenting, he says single parenthood is now on the table for him, for a long time the answer was no, but he'd consider it, though ideally with a partner.
  • He warns that information delusion/AI-driven noise will '10x in the next 10 to 18 months' and that the best resilience is doing things in real life and seeking out your tribe.

Worth remembering

  • Archery has brought him a ton of joy recently, he's been training hard, shooting both right- and left-handed, with a 'very good archery dog,' Molly, behind the line of fire.
  • He recently attended a Tango festival in Austin for the first time in about 20 years, bought new shoes, and wants to do a 3-4 week full-immersion trip to Argentina.
  • His top current snacks are Maui Nui venison sticks, mixed nuts (minus peanuts), and cans of lentils.
  • He went heavy into web3 and took large losses, but donated the Cockpunch NFT proceeds, around $2 million, to his foundation.
  • He cites Mike Tyson and Dean Martin puking before performing to normalize pre-performance nerves, and says rehearsal (like recording his TED talk hundreds of times) is his real mindfulness practice.
  • He warns that combining ayahuasca with SSRIs can cause potentially fatal serotonin syndrome, and that people on lithium should not mix it with psychedelics.
  • One of his favorite pieces of art was bought for about $60-80 at an antique warehouse in the middle of nowhere.
  • At the time of recording he'll be about 76-77 in 30 years; his family history on both sides has males typically dying around 85.
  • His father lost roughly 80 pounds (about 40 kg) in a year using the slow-carb diet plus the super slow resistance protocol (Ken Hutchins).
  • The best thing he spent an 'assload' on was a family trip around Europe with his parents, brother, and sister-in-law; he recommends reading Tim Urban's 'The Tail End.'