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Andrew Huberman · 2023-12-04

A Process for Finding & Achieving Your Unique Purpose | Robert Greene

Robert Greene gives Andrew Huberman a process for finding your unique purpose, on power, seduction, love, and surviving a near-fatal stroke.

A Process for Finding & Achieving Your Unique Purpose | Robert Greene
The guest

Robert Greene: Bestselling author of The 48 Laws of Power, The Laws of Human Nature, The Art of Seduction, and Mastery. Trained at UC Berkeley and the University of Wisconsin-Madison; writes about psychology, strategy, and human nature rooted in history.

What this episode covers

Greene lays out his framework for discovering one's 'life's task' by digging back to the unique seeds of delight and inclination felt in early childhood before social pressures drowned them out. The conversation ranges across power as a primal human need for control, seduction as a non-verbal art rooted in vulnerability, and a vision of 'love sublime' that transcends power dynamics. Greene and Huberman discuss anxiety as the engine of real thinking, mentorship and role models, reading non-verbal cues, and choosing a partner by convergence of deep character values. Greene also recounts his 2018 stroke as the most powerful experience of his life, sharing what it taught him about the brain, dying, gratitude, and urgency ('death ground').

Recommended on this episode

BookRecommendedISBN verified

Mastery

Robert Greene

“whenever I'm asked for book suggestions I always include Mastery in my top three recommendations”
“I first learned about Robert's work from reading the book Mastery which to my mind is a brilliant exploration and a practical tool for how to think about and pursue one's purpose”— Andrew Huberman
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Longitude

Dava Sobel

“I recommended three books at the end of the course every year that I taught it”
“one of the books was the book longitude which is a wonderful story about discovery of timekeeping devices at sea”— Andrew Huberman
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Principles of Neural Science

Eric Kandel

“I recommended three books at the end of the course every year”
“it's um uh principles of Neuroscience... it's a wonderful resource um if you want to learn about neuroscience”— Andrew Huberman
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Frames of Mind: The Theory of Multiple Intelligences

Howard Gardner

“there's a book I recommend for everybody... it's helped me immensely”
“there's a book I recommend for everybody uh it's Howard Gardner's five frames of mind it's helped me immensely”— Robert Greene
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Bone Games

Rob Schultheis

“it's a great book... it's very interesting book”
“he studies a lot of Neuroscience it's a great book I'm using it in my new book it's called bone games it's very interesting book”— Robert Greene

The guest's own work

BookBy the guestISBN verified

The 48 Laws of Power

Robert Greene

“Robert Green is an author who has written more than five bestselling books including the 48 Laws of Power the laws of human nature and Mastery”— Andrew Huberman
BookBy the guestISBN verified

The Laws of Human Nature

Robert Greene

“Robert Green is an author who has written more than five bestselling books including the 48 Laws of Power the laws of human nature and Mastery”— Andrew Huberman
BookBy the guestISBN verified

The Art of Seduction

Robert Greene

“I wrote The Art of Seduction with the idea that it was an art invented by women it was invented by women who had no power”— Robert Greene
BookBy the guestISBN verified

The 33 Strategies of War

Robert Greene

“it's a strategy from my book I wrote a book on strategy my version of The Art of War it's called 33 Strategies of War”— Robert Greene

Also referenced (named, not recommended)

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The Art of War

Sun Tzu

“my version of The Art of War it's called 33 Strategies of War but it's really about strategy... it's inspired from sunu the great Chinese strategist”— Robert Greene

Big reveals from this episode

  • Huberman credits Greene's book Mastery with transforming his entire life and says his podcast likely wouldn't exist without it.
  • Greene admits he didn't find his own exact path until age 38 or 39.
  • Greene names Steven Pinker as a writer he dislikes and finds annoying, yet forces himself to be open to him.
  • Greene argues using ChatGPT is like taking a helicopter to the top of Everest, deadening the mental 'muscle' built over decades.
  • Greene recounts his August 2018 stroke, caused by a blood clot blocking blood flow to his brain while he was driving.
  • Greene says that while dying he glimpsed that the self is an illusion, with around 50 competing selves inside us.
  • Greene shares the stroke took away hiking and swimming but gave him deep gratitude and appreciation for being alive.

Worth remembering

  • Greene cites Howard Gardner's theory of five forms of intelligence (verbal, abstract, kinetic, social, etc.) that the brain naturally veers toward.
  • When emotionally engaged, the brain learns two, three, or four times faster than when not engaged.
  • The word 'sublime' derives from being 'on the threshold,' like standing at a doorway looking into something larger.
  • Caltech's David Anderson found a brain circuit for purely non-sexual mounting/dominance, entirely separate from sexual circuits.
  • Milton Erickson, paralyzed by polio for two years, mastered non-verbal communication by watching people and later seemed psychic.
  • Micro-expressions revealing true feelings last only about 1/150th of a second but can be detected.
  • Greene calls the human brain the most complex piece of matter in the known universe and urges 'worshiping' it over technology.
  • Humanity nearly went extinct around 80,000 years ago, reduced to roughly 8,000 people on the planet.
  • 'Death ground' is a strategy from Sun Tzu via Greene's 33 Strategies of War: an army with its back to the wall fights ten times harder.
  • After his stroke, Greene can write for only about 3-4 hours a day, but describes those hours as blissful.