16 Lessons From 2022 - Joe Rogan, Jordan Peterson & Jocko Willink

In this solo end-of-2022 episode, Chris Williamson rounds up his favorite insights from a year of podcast conversations and reading. He covers Rogan's distinction between value and mere difficulty, Jordan Peterson on the hidden price of inaction, Ryan Holiday on talking versus doing, and Rob Henderson on propaganda and the news cycle. He moves through dealing with critics and self-consciousness, Jocko on discipline over motivation, and Christopher Hitchens' line that 'in life we must choose our regrets.' He closes with a deep dive on building confidence through a stack of undeniable proof rather than affirmations.

• Rogan's 'value-difficulty conflation': something unattainable seems valuable, but difficulty is not the same as worth.
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• Jordan Peterson: inaction has a price too; a postponed problem is an extended one that stacks up anxiety cost.
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• Ryan Holiday: 'Talking about the thing and doing the thing vie for the same resources' - talking can drain motivation to act.
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• Rob Henderson: the goal of propaganda is to control what you think other people think, not to brainwash you directly.
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• Christopher Hitchens via Douglas Murray: 'In life we must choose our regrets' - regrets are features, not bugs.
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• Jocko Willink: discipline beats motivation because motivation is fleeting while discipline is always there.
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• Confidence comes from a stack of undeniable proof that you are who you say you are, not from mirror affirmations.
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• 'Imposter adaptation': lack of self-belief can persist even after repeated real-world success, becoming about self-image not competence.
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• A year earlier Chris wasn't living in America, had no visa, and the show was a quarter to a fifth of its current size.
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• In the mid-1800s UK, an average of only four people per year registered for divorce.
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• On LinkedIn, 'strategy/strategizing' rank among the 10 most common bio words while 'execute/executor' aren't in the top 1,000.
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• The 'Hendersonian news cycle': it's not happening, then it's no big deal, then it's good actually, then critics are the problem.
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• A millionaire friend told Chris 'it's idiots all the way up' - people at the top of any organization don't know what they're doing either.
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• Chris recorded Andrew Huberman and Jocko Willink within about six days of each other.
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• Huberman's quote: 'You cannot control the mind with the mind. You have to use the body.'
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• The show was more shared on Spotify in 2022 than 99% of all podcasts.
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• Chris took up pickleball as an embodiment practice done purely for enjoyment rather than a greater goal.
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• Chris flew a group of close friends out to Las Vegas as a deliberate year-end celebration to force-feed gratitude.
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