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Tim Ferriss · 2022-03-14

Tim Ferriss and Matt Mullenweg Get Personal in Antarctica

Tim Ferriss and Matt Mullenweg record from a tent on an Antarctic glacier, sharing personal reflections on grief, mortality, fear, and meaning.

Tim Ferriss and Matt Mullenweg Get Personal in Antarctica
The guest

Matt Mullenweg: Co-founder of the open-source publishing platform WordPress and founder/CEO of Automattic, the company behind WordPress.com, WooCommerce, Tumblr, and Pocket Casts. A longtime friend of Tim, distributed-work advocate, and avid photographer.

What this episode covers

Recorded inside a shell tent on Union Glacier in Antarctica after the duo witnessed a total solar eclipse, this wide-ranging and intimate conversation reunites Tim Ferriss with Matt Mullenweg five years after their first interview. They reflect on the cosmic insignificance and awe of the eclipse and the timeless Antarctic landscape, then move into deeply personal territory: Matt's grief over losing his father, the lessons of pre-grieving, and his explicit decision not to have children so he can devote himself to his mission of democratizing publishing and open source. Tim opens up about his fear of being hardwired toward depression and chronic low energy tied to undiagnosed Lyme disease, and the existential relief he found in the book Four Thousand Weeks. The pair use a deck of reflection question cards to probe fears, beliefs about the afterlife, intentions versus actions, bucket lists, and gratitude, disagreeing thoughtfully on human nature and ethics. Lighter threads include Tim's portable podcasting setup, dog cloning, scuba diving as a metaphor for psychedelics, and the limits of scientific knowing.

Recommended on this episode

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Figma

Figma

“figma is actually an awesome tool you should check out”
“figma is actually an awesome tool you should check out imagine a way to coordinate design online and in real time”— Matt Mullenweg
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Holstee Reflection Cards

Holstee

“this is a deck that is is quite good”
“the holstee h-o-l-s-t-e-e reflection cards and there are a lot of decks of questions ... this is a deck that is is quite good”— Tim Ferriss
BookRecommendedISBN verified

On Grief and Grieving

Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

“the book that i found most helpful during that”
“the book that i found most helpful during that was co-authored by elizabeth kubler-ross ... the book was called i think grief and grieving”— Matt Mullenweg
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WeCroak

“i've kept that going”
“i've used we croak and five times a day it just sends you a notification it's like just a reminder we're all gonna die”— Matt Mullenweg
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Momentum

“i've used momentum i like it a lot”
“use a tab thing called momentum which allows you to customize your new tab screen and it can do countdowns”— Matt Mullenweg
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StoryCorps

StoryCorps

“they have a really great set of questions ... story core those would be the experts and check it out”
“they have a really great set of questions that kind of walk people through amazing their life history so story core those would be the experts”— Matt Mullenweg
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Four Thousand Weeks

Oliver Burkeman

“there's actually a lot of great exploration in this book ... i end up liking it a lot ... it's a solid book”
“it's called four thousand weeks that refers to the average lifespan of humans and there's actually a lot of great exploration in this book”— Tim Ferriss
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Conscious

Annaka Harris

“i'm going to plug two books here ... this book is a a fantastic kind of and brief ... very valuable”
“i'm going to plug two books here ... annika harris consciousness ... this book is a a fantastic kind of and brief”— Matt Mullenweg
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Sum: Forty Tales from the Afterlives

David Eagleman

“i'm going to plug two books here ... it is a great book it is an exceptional book”
“david eagleman ... four details of after lives and each one starts basically at the moment of death ... they're hilarious and it's a great bedtime read”— Matt Mullenweg
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Fantastic Fungi

Louie Schwartzberg

“great ... super fun”
“i just saw the documentary fantastic fun guy yeah yeah great damn it's yeah super fun yeah louis schwartzberg”— Matt Mullenweg

The guest's own work

ProductBy the guest

WordPress

Automattic

“matt is a co-founder of the open source publishing platform wordpress which now powers more than one-third of all sites on the web”— Tim Ferriss
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WooCommerce

Automattic

“we make wordpress.com the place to get wordpress woocommerce which is ecommerce built on top of wordpress”— Matt Mullenweg
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Tumblr

Automattic

“tumblr jetpack all sorts of uh day one awesome journaling app simple notes pocket cast for podcasting”— Matt Mullenweg
ProductBy the guest

Jetpack

Automattic

“we make wordpress.com the place to get wordpress woocommerce which is ecommerce built on top of wordpress tumblr jetpack”— Matt Mullenweg
ProductBy the guest

Day One

Automattic

“day one awesome journaling app simple notes pocket cast for podcasting so check out pocketcast great up”— Matt Mullenweg
ProductBy the guest

Simplenote

Automattic

“day one awesome journaling app simple notes pocket cast for podcasting so check out pocketcast”— Matt Mullenweg
ProductBy the guest

Pocket Casts

Automattic

“simple notes pocket cast for podcasting so check out pocketcast great up so we uh basically try to make the open web”— Matt Mullenweg
BookBy the guestISBN verified

Tools of Titans

Tim Ferriss

“i put an edited ... slightly shortened version in i think it was tools of titans because it had such an impact on me”— Tim Ferriss
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The 4-Hour Workweek

Tim Ferriss

“it does make a reference to the four hour work week and not in terribly kind way ... the filling the void chapter”— Tim Ferriss

Also referenced (named, not recommended)

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Zoom H6

Zoom

“we've got the zoom h6 recorder in front of me and then we have two xlr cables one going to a handheld mic”— Tim Ferriss
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Panasonic eneloop BQ-CC55 charger

Panasonic

“i have rechargeable batteries which are panasonic rechargeable bqcc55 is going to probably take you to the proper make and model”— Tim Ferriss
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Shure MV88

Shure

“we have an iphone with a sure mv8 microphone that that attaches to the iphone through a lightning port and captures really good audio”— Tim Ferriss
ProductReferenced

Shure SM58

Shure

“the handheld mics are also sure and i usually use sm58 mics these are slightly better for voice”— Tim Ferriss
ProductReferenced

Shure KSM8

Shure

“if i could just see yours for a second this is the ksm8 and uh they're very nice work really really well”— Tim Ferriss
ProductReferenced

ViaGen

ViaGen

“i think the company is called viagen and uh and yeah you can pay and they will take a skin sample from the living animal”— Tim Ferriss
MediaReferenced

Radiolab (wood wide web episode)

Radiolab

“you can google i think there's a radio lab episode on the the wood wide web as they call it which talks about ... inter-tree communication”— Tim Ferriss
BookReferencedISBN verified

Of Wolves and Men

Barry Lopez

“if you read say of wolves and men by barry lopez he talks about wolves being tracked like by scientists that head off in a specific direction”— Tim Ferriss
BookReferencedISBN verified

Another Way of Knowing

“there is a book i think it is actually called another way of knowing ... it's basically an anthropological exploration of a handful of tribes”— Tim Ferriss

Big reveals from this episode

  • Matt shares that the biggest change in the past five years was his father's passing, which taught him about grief and the ephemerality of life.
  • Tim confesses his deepest fear: that he is hardwired by DNA and conditioning toward depression, self-loathing, and a baseline he cannot escape no matter how much he optimizes.
  • Tim links his lifelong struggle with low energy to undiagnosed and untreated Lyme disease from childhood on Long Island, later confirmed by serologic testing around 2012-2014.
  • Tim describes how the book Four Thousand Weeks and its 'cosmic insignificance therapy' brought him peace by reframing humanity's self-destruction against the finite lifespan of Earth and the sun.
  • Matt reveals he decided explicitly not to have children, choosing instead to make WordPress and open source the legacy he leaves on the world.
  • Matt puts the odds that he changes his mind and has a child within five years at 8 percent, which Tim jokes will be the episode's headline.
  • Matt discloses he was party to the cloning of a dog via the company Viagen and has met the resulting clone, finding it a genetic twin with a completely different personality.
  • Asked what he'd change if he had one year to live, Matt says he would write more to pass on his mission of democratizing publishing, while Tim would spend more time with loved ones and have a child with his girlfriend.

Worth remembering

  • WordPress now powers 42 percent of the web per W3Techs, up from roughly 10 percent five years earlier; Automattic has grown from a couple hundred to nearly 2,000 people across 92 countries.
  • Automattic operates with essentially no internal email, communicating asynchronously through an internal blogging tool called P2, where everything is permalinked, archived, and searchable.
  • In Antarctica all human waste must be carried out, so Matt keeps a colored Nalgene bottle of urine on the tent table because urine left in the snow can persist for hundreds or thousands of years.
  • WooCommerce is projected to process about 21 billion dollars of transactions, as Automattic aims to do for e-commerce what it did for websites.
  • The total solar eclipse they witnessed was the only one visible from the Antarctic continent until 2039.
  • Eclipses have shaped history: King John the Pious, and an eclipse tied to the splitting of an empire into what became France, Italy, and Germany among three sons.
  • Emperor penguins, the largest penguin species, stand roughly 2.5 to 3.5 feet tall and have about 15 feathers per square centimeter.
  • Tim records in-person episodes with a Zoom H6, Shure SM58 and KSM8 handheld mics, colored XLR cables for easy level identification, and a Shure MV88 on an iPhone as backup.
  • Tim recorded an episode with Rick Rubin in a 200+ degree Fahrenheit sauna, where the mics got so hot they had to be wrapped in towels; the Antarctic recording was at roughly negative 35 with windchill near negative 90.
  • Tim references a book (Another Way of Knowing) about Malaysian tribes where villagers would reliably wait at a trailhead to meet an arriving anthropologist who had given no prior notice.