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Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me)

Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson ISBN 9780151010981

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This book by Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson came up once on Diary of a CEO in the episodes we index. That mention was a genuine on-air recommendation, not just a passing reference. The people who brought it up: Robert Greene. Every occurrence below links to the episode page and to the exact second it was said on YouTube.

What it is

Two distinguished psychologists look at the role of self-justification in human life, explaining how and why we create fictions that absolve us of responsibility and restore our belief in our intelligence, moral rectitude, and correctness; assess the potential repercussions of such a course of action; and reveal how it can be overcome.

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“there's a great book I can't remember what the writer's name was mistakes were made but not by me I recommend that book highly”— Robert Greene

The guest here is Robert Greene: Author of bestselling books on power and human psychology, including The 48 Laws of Power, Mastery, and The Laws of Human Nature. One of the most influential modern writers on strategy and manipulation. Robert Greene unpacks power, envy, loneliness and the crisis facing modern men, while reflecting on the stroke that changed his life.

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